A Manly Man

Chief Ndiweni: Zimbabwe

In a society where single parenthood dominates and more than 95% custodial rights are given to women, feminine men are being raised. Sad reality but the quality of men that mothers are raising are the complete opposite of what the modern woman wants or expect in a man, relationship wise. Blame game? Hell no, but truth of the matter is that in a world where men are programmed to be Feminine. BE A MASCULINE MAN.

Unlearn everything you think you know about life and women, whatever you believe works or you think it’s the way of doing things in this life. Unlearn that crap. Come up with your own terms that you totally understand and relate to and not something that the society has dictated and conditioned you to think as right and as a norm. Have everything based on this question, What’s best in it for me?

Read books which edify you and switch the TV off. Nothing will hinder progress more than Disney fantasies. Most movies or television series today portray men as weak and a gender that can’t handle anything and it’s ridiculous because what women do, men can do better. Maybe you want an example, “Compliments to the chef” you say in a restaurant. Most of them are men. in fact the first person to ever cook was a man. Kids raised by their fathers are by far most disciplined and they embrace their energies, these are the works of men.

Meditation declutters your mind. From birth to date, I bet you never questioned anything. Why is it so? Meditate, let your sub conscious dwell on the positives of life as you rebuild your mentality from the conditioning of this feminine world.

One of the major reason the world is in a mess is because of the absence of fathers in households. Dare to be different and bestow the masculine and feminine energy into your seeds. Statistics are proving that kids raised in fatherless households tend to lack discipline because of the different styles of parenting between men and women and not only limited to that. For an end to feminised boys and men, responsible fathers are needed in the society.

It’s easy to stand out from the rest of low quality men out there. Men that rape, abuse and are just violent. Those traits don’t have anything manly written all over them and I’m one man who would love to see men that rape having their balls cut off. It’s a ridiculous act of cowardice that deserves so much punishment in order to create a better, conducive environment for all. It’s not every men who does this, but the minimal number has painted the rest BAD.

I vouch for a better world and unlike what society pressures you into. Gladly know it’s OK to be single, it’s ok to be a well established Bachelor. It’s ok to choose not to get involved with women because you’re unsure of who is perfect for you. You’re free to be you as long you’re happy. Embrace you manhood and above all dictate your world, your sphere of influence and positive vibes only.

Happy Father’s Day…

Happy Father’s Day read;

Many of us as we were growing up, we were programmed in our brains by society that women are “Unicorns” and that as men we will work hard and make money and then we get a “good” wife and we’ll live “the dream” with a big house, having a family and then we will all live happily ever after. This is what society tells us even to date. But, that’s far from the truth.

All of us here, we have a past. Our experiences with women, what we saw in their nature and as we look back now that some of us have woken, it all makes sense.

The thing about women is, you can never make them happy. What do I mean by this? The average women in today’s world, wants a mix of many qualities of men combined in one. What are they? They want a Christian Grey type of man, that will put her in her place, while being overly wealthy and still being a “Gentleman” outside, so the whole world knows that she is with a “good” guy with status. Basically, they want a psycho in bed but they want the same guy to be “nice” outside so the whole world knows she is with a “good” man.

All men must remember one thing which is, women don’t care about you. She cares deeply about what others think of her, when she is with you. Hence the reason why her friends will first ask, “What does he do?” once they’re aware of her new relationship. This is for the status type of men like Doctors, Lawyers etc. But you know what? She will secretly want to F the “Alpha” on the side because it’s in a women’s primal instinct to be with those kind of men as well. Trust Me. No women wants to sleep with a Male feminist or a simp who bends over and worship her. Women want to get validated by those men and get their attention of course. But they would never F a guy that they just “like.” They only F men that they genuinely respect.

The saying “men can love women unconditionally, while women’s love is only conditional” is very true. How so? If she’s your wife, she “loves” the provider in you as you provide her with the security and provision. She doesn’t love you for “you”. We see many cases of women leaving their husbands after he has lost his good high paying job? That’s not all, a woman also wants not only the provider instinct in a man but also the masculinity which she craves. A rich guy might have all the money but he might not be masculine (please Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos don’t shoot at me) while the masculine guy may be an Alpha but not rich. Now because she can’t find the whole package, they will sleep around only with the Alphas then only to settle with a simp.

They sleep with a guy who they know they can’t manipulate, while they only marry a guy who they can manipulate and control easily.

And about the “Alpha” men, what do women like about these Men? The roller coaster emotions and feelings they give her. The highs, lows and the unpredictability of those men keep women on their toes, making her “love” him. But remember, she doesn’t “love” alphas for themselves. But, because he is so unpredictable and “great” in bed, this keeps a women on her toes making her stay with him even if he’s broke and has no status. While, she would never marry these types of men, most women want to experience those emotions, and all they do is a great job of never giving the validation she craves. So, most women in their “whore phase” after experiencing these types of men they get emotionally broken and become man hating feminists who want a so called “good and nice guy” with money who will save her. But they will never deeply be happy with him. Why? Because she’s alpha widowed.

But remember, her primal instinct will always be for the alpha. No matter how much a “feminist” she becomes or how much a “good” guy she wants, she deep down only wants to be dominated only by the alpha. Why is 50 Shades of Grey the best selling book for women? Because that’s what women ultimately want and desire. A guy to command her and put her in her place, while being emotionless and stoic, while being rich, having status and being very machiavellian. But, again, if a guy was supposed to lose his “frame” or his “wealth” then she would leave him in a drop of a hat. Why? Because women simply have too many options in this modern age.

So, what is the solution?

The most logical option is focusing on your ownself. Make money not for that future unicorn wife, but for yourself. I’m not saying go monk mode. Personally, I can’t. My biological sex drive is too high and I would need a chick around me. But, don’t make them your goal in life. Treat them as a side dish and of course never marry quick or don’t at all. Set your goals and focus on them. Personally mine is to make as much money as possible, and travel the world, do good and help the less fortunate and just basically live the way I want to as a Senior Bachelor.

But what else is there to do anyway? I wanted a wife and kids, but after knowing and realizing the whole game, it’s never worth it. My own ego and self respect is far to high to ever “marry”. Never haha well Never say Never King. And kids? Raising kids in this broken feminised world will be even more difficult than ever. And marriage? In this feminist delusional world, were women simply have too much power in marriage and the divorce courts don’t lie. I like to bet and gamble on sure things and marriage isn’t one of them.

It is Father’s Day, embrace your masculinity, your manhood and you matter. Focus on you and please please please raise your sons and daughters in a way they embrace nature. Fatherlessness is one of the main reasons why crime rate gets high and girls lose respect for men. Once again, Happy Father’s Day.

Genuine Burning Desire!

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If there is one thing that I have learnt over the years is that, “you cannot force love.” The exact moment she makes it clear that she isn’t into you, move on! Rejection is better than sacrifice. We are in a world with more than 4 billion women and plenty beautiful young girls turning 18 everyday. Why must you pursue what has to be negotiated?

A lot of times us men think it’s necessary to closely pursue a woman we like but while we have to, truth be told, it’s not necessary to go through the hurdles. You as the man are the Prize! There are so many women out there than for you to literally force somebody’s daughter to be with you. Where there is a burning desire there isn’t a hassle, things ought to flow and flourish with the women in her feminine nature and yourself being a man you are. Naturally.

When a woman is in awe of you. She is mesmerised by the very presence of you. She will do anything for you. A woman who wants to bed you will find a way to bed you even if it means she has to swim halfway across the ocean to bed you. She will. You should also be a person with many options. Women love the idea that they have what other other women wants and what other men wants to be.

There is nothing more powerful than genuine desire. Nothing can come in between, nothing can hinder anything. Dump those who give you hopes and dreams backed by no action. It all boils down to genuine desire over excuses. Save your energy for those who can only meet you with that level of genuine desire and this genuine burning desire is never negotiated. Once sex alone is negotiated, just bear in mind the sex will never be worthy the wait.

Alone, Never Lonely!

You master this King, you’ve overcome the world. Learn to be alone and do this perfectly that you don’t even feel lonely In fact you don’t even need to feel otherwise. Mastering this art is a super power. Lonely is an emotion or energy draining feeling derived from scarcity mindset. Alone is an actual circumstance that has increased productivity, creativity etc.

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A man should thrive being alone. What it means is fewer distractions and quality time for self improvement. This is the reason I regard 2020 as the best year of my life. Due to COVID-19 lockdown and movement restrictions. I was confined in a very limited space where all I had was myself, food, books and Wi-Fi. The quality of time I had for myself was one of the reason why I’m on another level of thinking also with a different perception of the world.

You ought to know yourself. You ought to improve yourself, you should be better than yesterday everyday. One sure way to achieve such is by mastering the art of being alone. The ability to thrive being alone destroys the need for outside validation. You need this strength. Seeking validation is the worst destruction to ever happen to human kind.

You’ll feel like whining about your current state but there are many alternatives or things you can do in pursuit of bettering oneself which are not limited to lifting weights, reading books etc. When being alone has become your super power then can you seek either male friends or a woman otherwise you’ll be a burden to many.

Being alone or single in this case is an important phase in one’s life. Instead of feeling unattractive, low value etc remember you’re alone, you have so much quality time to invest into adding value to yourself. You’re a masterpiece, maximise on every aspect of your life and what better way and time to do this than while alone with no distractions. Learn a skill, maximise your grooming etiquette. Remember lonely is an emotion derived from a scarcity mindset.

She For Keeps!

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The way I laugh whenever I hear the line, “She for keeps.Ha ha ha It just makes me realise how ignorant some man are. If most people realized how quickly a woman can change once she feels comfortable in either a short or long term relationship no man would ever say that line again. But well yea, they’re right, She is a keeper of your assets and possibly your soul.

This idea of “She for keeps” has made many man get married for wrong reasons. One of the worst things is that, marriage for a man “today” is basically handing a woman an axe or a gun then putting your head on the chopping block or have the gun pointed at your head in hopes that she won’t cut it off or pull the trigger. But do you really want to live life with a gun pointed at your head.

Most of them will take a shot just not sure if she will point it in his head because many men have been crippled for life by bullets of marriage and may be death is the better result one can hope for. I’m writing this with a heavy heart because a lot of man are all manly in pubs and out there but back at home we all know Boss Lady controls, rules and dictates. This has resulted in higher rates in suicides among men. For example, in Zimbabwe among 4 people who commits suicide, 3 are men. This is the most recent case in Zimbabwe where I’m from.

The moment you sign that marriage contract, you are a hostage with a knife on your throat 24/7. This is especially true when you conceive a child with her, she will always have the upper hand. The state has her back, the divorce courts as well. Who do you depend on? You can’t even open up to anyone cause they’ll regard you otherwise and you care so much of their perspective of you right.

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Our male ancestors didn’t invent an axe for women to wield. We should be holding it. We are the natural born authority, the law, the punishers. It is not us that need to walk on eggshells, but the enemies of masculinity which is a God given right to rule. It used to be that the wife would fear that metaphorical axe and so behaved correctly as a woman should. Her loyalty wasn’t based on fear but reverence of a structure. Feminists and betas flipped it around and it’s a degenerate clown world today.

Theres is literally nothing to gain from marriage as a man in today’s modern society, Nothing. And everything to lose. If you think I’m bluffing or what switch off Netflix and observe society, divorce courts, open a newspaper. The fish is yours to fry, the beauty about life is that you’ve the right to choose but guess what I’m with Apostle Paul on this one, “It is better I remain unmarried” 1 Corinthians 7:8